Sunday, 5 March 2017

STOP (part A)

Stop doesn't sound right to the ears of many, all we interested in is the start button, how fast this has crept  into our minds and stolen our own stuff, draining us of our ways and breaking out the paths we once toil with smiles.
They is a stop button too ain't there?
Okay,, just give it a second glance,
its easier than we think, yet complicated as the word itself.
We carry so much insignificant worries, thoughts and constantly play the blame game all in a bid to ward off the ugly reality.
But hey!!!!!!!!!
On a very light note
Stop calling people who don't call you.
Stop visiting people who don't know where you live. Stop making time for people who don't have time for you. Stop spending on people who don't spend on you. Stop thinking about people who don't think about you. You will make yourself emotionally bankrupt. Where is your self- worth? Don't let anyone tag it to PRIDE, its way far from that,,,

You can love someone from a distance and wish them well.. and I'm not just talking about romantic relationships but all relationships; friends, family, boyfriends, girlfriends,. Take how people treat you as a cue and stop exerting yourself and giving love where it's neither returned or appreciated. Life is difficult enough without having to beg people for their love and attention. The least you can do for yourself is to surround yourself with people who genuinely love and care about you. And most importantly, surround yourself with people that don't see you as an option. There's nothing worse than people who treat you like you're replaceable."

Get it from me
You are unique
You are priceless
You are irreplaceable
Never let anyone make you feel less



I was holding on to the coveted title of a bachelor but you are the type to make me want to give up that legend

I was holding a disdain for weddings but you are the type to make me want to don a tuxedo and strap on a bow tie and not care about anything else

I was holding on to the crowded space I call relationship but you are the type to make me want to make us the only world I know

I was enjoying my conversations with ghosts. They never talked back but you are the type that makes me want to have a real conversation with a human

I was worried about the past repeating itself but you are the type that makes me want to look forward to the future

I was having dreams about multiple beautiful strangers but you are the type that makes me want to dream about one beautiful stranger

I was content with not giving it all but you are the type that makes me want to love with all my might

I have never been the one to fall in love that easily but you are the type that makes me want to drown in the sea of love

I am not one for poetry and valentines but you are the type that makes me want to come home with a teddy bear in one hand and a bouquet of red roses in another

I am used to tip-toeing on egg shells around beautiful strangers but you are the type who makes me want to feel my feet firmly on the ground again

I was comfortable with things going wrong at some point but you are the type that makes me fear to face a day without a smile on your face

You are my type

To the world, you are You

To me, you are a miracle

I am the lucky one

Tonight is my last day as a bachelor

My life begins all over again when the sun comes up tomorrow

Dedicated to the unmarried ones in the building.
Best of luck

Wednesday, 1 March 2017


Have you ever wondered why God carefully
positioned a membrane of blood in a lady’s
sexual opening? It is a tinny membrane that
partially or completely covers the opening of
the vagina. It is called the “HYMEN”.

Why would God-Our Maker put a breakable
tissue full of blood at the very door of the
sexual opening of the female?
Why is it so carefully placed at that entrance,
like a ribbon tied at the entrance of a new
house about to be launched?
Why is it filled with blood that spills away
when it is broken?

Why? Without doubt, the HYMEN IS A GATE!
It was God (our creator) who set that blood
filled vessel there as a covenant blockage, a
sign and a token of a covenant between the
bearer and whoever plunges into her opening.
Before God, the disvirginity of a lady is not a
casual act of fun. It is a serious covenant
struck and confirmed by the blood shed on
that day.

This is God’s way of saying, “Whoever plunges
in to this woman shall only be able to do so by
making a blood covenant to be joined to her for
the rest of his life, from that point onward.
Little wonder why sexual intercourse was
designed by God to take place only and only
after the marriage contract is sealed. The one
who made the body (the hormones, organs,
nerves,tissues, e.t.c)said it in clear terms in
1Cor.6:13 , “Now, the body is not for

Anyone who chooses to use the body for
fornication must know that he/ she is working
directly against God’s plan and there would
definitely be a consequence either now or at old
There is a spiritual bonding, a supernatural
process that takes place in a lady’s heart to the
first guy that enters in to her especially at that
particular time when the hymen breaks. There is
no covenant without blood: this is why the
membrane contains enough of it.

As a matter of fact, what happens the first
time a lady has sex is not just sex but an
immersion and a bathing of the man with her
hymen blood to initiate a covenant that is highly
recognized in the spirit realm of both
light and darkness! The first time this happens
just marks her opening day covenant ceremony
and each subsequent experience goes on to
further ractify and strengthen that covenant or
establish another version of it with another
Many have washed useless boys with that

Many have struck irreversible covenants with
men that have nothing to do with their destiny.
Many have shared that hymen blood in sexual
activity with demon-possessed men while some
others have struck such precious covenants
with candle sticks fingers of banana etc as they
exercised sex with it.
If only they knew,many girls who carelessly
allowed themselves to be disvirgined in a bid
to be among the so called “big girls” would
never have done so.
The Bible says it in clear terms: “Or do you not
know that he who is joined to a harlot (through
sexual activity) is one with her (1 Cor.
This is why many girls are not yet married, yet
their spiritual composition is already shattered
and imbalanced, because they have mingled
their souls with that of different men.

Dear Singles,know today that there is a definite
proportion of your virtue that leaves you each
time a man enters into you and when that man
leaves you, he leaves with it. Just imagine how
much of yourself would be lost each time a man
enters into you without any properly signed
marriage bond or contract.
Sex is a spiritual affair. A giving of yourself to
another. All of these things have strong and
terrible spiritual implications.

A broken hymen opens you up to the spirit of
the man that broke it, any other spirit
whatsoever that may have mingled with that
man’s spirit, those who have mingled theirs with
him and the spirit of any other man that
enters into you thereafter. The fun part is that
pre-marital sex is not funny at all. What
happens between the lines could be deadly and
The very first day a lady, or a man does that
there will be spiritual transfer of destiny.
The sin of fornication gives demons and
occultic people direct access into your God's
given destiny.
So guys,zip up! Girls wise up!! It matters a lot.
I know a soul has been touched today, remain
blessed!.....share the message,you never can tell who it
would save.

God bless us all.

Your friend and sister